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Living with chronic illness
  • 3rd Renal Replacement Therapies Conference Sydney Sat Nov 4 2006


  • Menzies Premier Hotel
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Suffering
  • Patient
  • Family
  • Partners
  • Well of caring
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Carl Jung
  • “To live a complete life one must accept, without reservation, the particular fatal issue in which one finds oneself embedded….. If one lives properly and completely, time and again one will be confronted with a situation of which one will say: “This is too much. I cannot bear it any more.”  Man has to cope with the problem of suffering. The Oriental wants to get rid of suffering by casting it off. Western man tries to suppress suffering with drugs. But suffering has to be overcome, and the only way to overcome it is to endure it.”   Age 79yrs  (1954)
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Thoughts
  • “Why me?” is a frequently asked question.
  • “What did I do to deserve this?”
  • “How am I going to be able to manage this?”
  • “What can I do about it?”
  • “Who can help me?”
  • “What have I done wrong?”
  • “What should I have done differently to avoid this
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Feelings
  • Anger


  • Sadness


  • Fear


  • Joy
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Actions
  • Making a “mistake”


  • “Why are you doing that?”


  •    “I don’t know. I just found myself doing it”
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Immune system
  • Psycho – neuro – immunology
  • Allowing all thoughts, feelings and actions to be freely entered into, with awareness and with as little judgement as possible, may free the immune system to function at its best.
  • Equally, rigidity of thought and emotion may confine the immune system
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Acceptance
  • "What you should be doing is what you are doing.“


  • "What you ought to have done is what you did."
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Medical Treatment
  • Making use of expert medical treatment
  • Retaining ownership of the process
  • Listening to others
  • Listening to yourself
  • Taking the risks
  • Taking responsibility as a way to well-being
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The evolutionary imperative
  • The tree of life


  • Living out our own particular aspect of evolution


  • Playing the hand one is dealt with awareness